"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When doing FB game, is it better to have pics of you with girls being close to each other or not?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who Dares Win
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Lets begin with different type of girls that are turned on or off according to what they are looking for, if you look like a womanizer you have the serious girls and the neofemminist girls avoiding you while the girls looking for fun may have attraction for you.
I believe the best thing is to take advantage of the pre selection point by letting them to see you in an environment full of goodlooking girls, that is enough to make you pass the selection test (losers are not invited in exclusive places), most of all avoid to upload pictures yourself, let others tag you otherwise it seems you're bragging to try too hard.
AllDay85
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Have pics up of you being candid and doing action things.
AllDay85
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Let's be honest, this isn't always an option. It's ok to have women you're ****ing on social media, just not ideal.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why isn't this an option?
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Well, it's a always possible you met them over social media.
AllDay85
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Sometimes she was already on there. Sometimes we met on there. Sometimes she gives me her social media instead of a number. Sometimes it's your main chick.
RangerMIke
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Having said that... women prefer men with options. But if you are over the top showing off women who like you that starts looking narcissistic... which is feminine not masculine.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Von
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On my facebook, every week there is a new picture of me (i am tagging or someone tags me) of me with a girl.... usually jetset events.... a couple of date asked if I was a player.... some of the girls I had XXX others not and it just for show.
As a single guy, having a new pic every week with a different girl you hands around her waist.... would it be too much?
RangerMike, yes its an attraction vs. comfort thing. She can get some attraction from your pics but she will lose some curiosity and she can get some comfort from your pics. So its difficult to say, i guess only by experimenting with a lot of girls can we get a conclusion with this.
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