Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When doing FB game, is it better to have pics of you with girls being close to each other or not?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Lets begin with different type of girls that are turned on or off according to what they are looking for, if you look like a womanizer you have the serious girls and the neofemminist girls avoiding you while the girls looking for fun may have attraction for you.
I believe the best thing is to take advantage of the pre selection point by letting them to see you in an environment full of goodlooking girls, that is enough to make you pass the selection test (losers are not invited in exclusive places), most of all avoid to upload pictures yourself, let others tag you otherwise it seems you're bragging to try too hard.
AllDay85
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Have pics up of you being candid and doing action things.
AllDay85
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Let's be honest, this isn't always an option. It's ok to have women you're ****ing on social media, just not ideal.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why isn't this an option?
John Winter
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Well, it's a always possible you met them over social media.
AllDay85
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Sometimes she was already on there. Sometimes we met on there. Sometimes she gives me her social media instead of a number. Sometimes it's your main chick.
RangerMIke
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Having said that... women prefer men with options. But if you are over the top showing off women who like you that starts looking narcissistic... which is feminine not masculine.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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On my facebook, every week there is a new picture of me (i am tagging or someone tags me) of me with a girl.... usually jetset events.... a couple of date asked if I was a player.... some of the girls I had XXX others not and it just for show.
As a single guy, having a new pic every week with a different girl you hands around her waist.... would it be too much?
RangerMike, yes its an attraction vs. comfort thing. She can get some attraction from your pics but she will lose some curiosity and she can get some comfort from your pics. So its difficult to say, i guess only by experimenting with a lot of girls can we get a conclusion with this.
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