Dhoulmagus
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Im sure our grandparents didnt have to deal with this. If you arent in the 10% than you are boned.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?skinnyguy said:It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.Grewd said:I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?
If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.Dhoulmagus said:It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
I'm just assuming because yall wouldn't be as optimisticGrewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from?
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.El Payaso said:All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It's probably something like 10 percent of guys clean up with women, 80 percent of guys get by ok with women (sort of), and 10 percent aren't even on the map.Grewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
If people reject a good book based on its cover than is it really a good book? I'm not on the map lolPartizan said:The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
Where can u send 100 messages at once? I will do this and make it "hey ur fvck able, let's fvck." To 10 000 hot chick at onceIn2theGame said:Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.
This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.