Dhoulmagus
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Im sure our grandparents didnt have to deal with this. If you arent in the 10% than you are boned.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?skinnyguy said:It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.Grewd said:I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?
If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.Dhoulmagus said:It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
I'm just assuming because yall wouldn't be as optimisticGrewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from?
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.El Payaso said:All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's probably something like 10 percent of guys clean up with women, 80 percent of guys get by ok with women (sort of), and 10 percent aren't even on the map.Grewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
If people reject a good book based on its cover than is it really a good book? I'm not on the map lolPartizan said:The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
Where can u send 100 messages at once? I will do this and make it "hey ur fvck able, let's fvck." To 10 000 hot chick at onceIn2theGame said:Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.
This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.