"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When did gaming girls become so difficult

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Im sure our grandparents didnt have to deal with this. If you arent in the 10% than you are boned.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
 

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El Payaso is right.

WORK ON YOURSELF.

1) Dress with style (you only get ONE chance of first 5 seconds for a woman to decide if she's gonna give you the time of day when you approach her for the first time)
2) Look impeccable (whatever you think is YOUR style and it works, if it doesn't - don't be stubborn, make a change)
3) Work on your personality (confidence, humor, speech, presence)
4) Work on your non-verbal communications (eye contact, touch, body language, smile)
5) Work on your game (study women, what tactic works and doesn't, experience counts)
6) Stop complaining, your life is in your own hands and nobody else is responsible for it.

Exodus
 

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Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.

This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.
 

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OP needs to change his screen name to Carl Thomas
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When did gaming girls become so difficult?

When you decided to become a b1tch....
 

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Gaming girls is not difficult, shed that belief and watch the world change. Girls are fun cute things you entertain yourself by entertaining them while we're all waiting to die one day.
 

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It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
 

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Don't even bother gaming girls unless you have fun with it. It's like saying what's the point of going water sliding or camping or writing a short story. There is none unless you like it. The work involved is part of the anticipation. They are only as enjoyable as you make it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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skinnyguy said:
It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?

If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
 

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Grewd said:
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?

If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
 

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El Payaso said:
All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grewd said:
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
It's probably something like 10 percent of guys clean up with women, 80 percent of guys get by ok with women (sort of), and 10 percent aren't even on the map.
 

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Partizan said:
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
If people reject a good book based on its cover than is it really a good book? I'm not on the map lol
 

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In2theGame said:
Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.

This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.
Where can u send 100 messages at once? I will do this and make it "hey ur fvck able, let's fvck." To 10 000 hot chick at once
 
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