Dhoulmagus
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Im sure our grandparents didnt have to deal with this. If you arent in the 10% than you are boned.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?skinnyguy said:It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.Grewd said:I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?
If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.Dhoulmagus said:It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
I'm just assuming because yall wouldn't be as optimisticGrewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from?
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.El Payaso said:All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's probably something like 10 percent of guys clean up with women, 80 percent of guys get by ok with women (sort of), and 10 percent aren't even on the map.Grewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
If people reject a good book based on its cover than is it really a good book? I'm not on the map lolPartizan said:The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
Where can u send 100 messages at once? I will do this and make it "hey ur fvck able, let's fvck." To 10 000 hot chick at onceIn2theGame said:Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.
This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.