Dhoulmagus
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Im sure our grandparents didnt have to deal with this. If you arent in the 10% than you are boned.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?skinnyguy said:It's not difficult per se. It's just now 10% of the guys are sleeping with 90% of the women. If you're alpha it is so easy to get women. If you're beta, good luck
It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.Grewd said:I laugh so hard when I see that stupid statistic. That's something betas assume is true because it conforms to their previous beliefs, I've never seen anything to back up the validity of it. And how the fvck would you proceed to figure it out? What's the point even?
If you truly believe that I recommend you clean up your perception to see that reality is highly ambiguous and nuanced, because now it seems like you see what you want to see. Attempt finding evidence for the opposite, no matter how unreliable it is.
Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.Dhoulmagus said:It's easy to say that when 95% of women don't automatically reject you upon glance.
I'm just assuming because yall wouldn't be as optimisticGrewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from?
The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.El Payaso said:All you do is moan, moan, moan. Stop being such a Negative Nancy. There are methods and tools outlined on this site. Use them. Improve yourself.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's probably something like 10 percent of guys clean up with women, 80 percent of guys get by ok with women (sort of), and 10 percent aren't even on the map.Grewd said:Hahaha, where do these numbers come from? I too at some point saw the "truth" in them, but that didn't really help me progress. Neither does it quite fit the description of reality, it seems more like 10% of guys don't get girls. So congrats you're in the lucky 10%.
If people reject a good book based on its cover than is it really a good book? I'm not on the map lolPartizan said:The methods and tools on this site do work. I am living proof.
Where can u send 100 messages at once? I will do this and make it "hey ur fvck able, let's fvck." To 10 000 hot chick at onceIn2theGame said:Our grandparents didnt have to deal with this because of one of the main factors in today's world...Technology. Just think about the phones we have now for example, Girls can be texting with multiple guys at once so they confuse themselves about who they want, When to go on a date with guy 1, guy 2, guy 3 etc. The ability to communicate without having to actually make a phone call makes it even more convenient for women. Females love to chit chat all day, weather its to complain, argue, flirt or just talk... texting and mobile communications applications makes it 100x worse. Back then it was more straight forward but now its just a mess. I remember when i had my own room phone and girls would actually call me and we'd have a conversation and meet up, although i was a teenager, it was so much easier to set something up and get in touch. There was no cell phones or any distractions if you were on a date. Today these chicks are on their iphones all fvckin day, talkin to who knows who and pretty much in secret.
This is definitely the generation of plate spinning and a Bachelors dream. Having multiple communications access to women and easily send a "Hey whats up" message to 100 girls all at once. Im sure Women do this too with loads of guys that are trying to pipe them.