"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says this
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
i always thought it was some sort of challenge or something, but then again it's like she's tryna make u jump thru hoops to gain her interests...
thanks for clearing that up rgeere ^^
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.Originally posted by rgeere
It means that it invalidates any sort of "fluff talk" she is telling you to try to soften the blow of rejection ...
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
In logic this is truth, in illogic this is false ... She more than likely just has other priorities and wishes you the best ...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She decided you two wern't compatible with oneanother - It happens ...Originally posted by christz
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.
I will give you an example of this that I just experienced yesterday.Originally posted by sapphire
I have had sex with women to whom I supposedly was not there type. It all goes back to the addage: don't listen to what a woman says, but look what she does.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
This girl I was seeing who I just broke up with but decided to stay friends with went out with me after work to hang out for happy hour. Long story short, we were trying to work the FWB relationship, and she didn't want to do it, but we basically got to the point where we were essentially doing it, and you can tell she was trying to act like she was trying to stop me, but she didn't. She said all this stuff, and in the end, I was still doing stuff to her. She could have gotten mad and just completely run off, but she put up a little resistance, then just gave in.