I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.Originally posted by rgeere
It means that it invalidates any sort of "fluff talk" she is telling you to try to soften the blow of rejection ...
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She decided you two wern't compatible with oneanother - It happens ...Originally posted by christz
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.
I will give you an example of this that I just experienced yesterday.Originally posted by sapphire
I have had sex with women to whom I supposedly was not there type. It all goes back to the addage: don't listen to what a woman says, but look what she does.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.