"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says this
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
i always thought it was some sort of challenge or something, but then again it's like she's tryna make u jump thru hoops to gain her interests...
thanks for clearing that up rgeere ^^
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.Originally posted by rgeere
It means that it invalidates any sort of "fluff talk" she is telling you to try to soften the blow of rejection ...
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
In logic this is truth, in illogic this is false ... She more than likely just has other priorities and wishes you the best ...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She decided you two wern't compatible with oneanother - It happens ...Originally posted by christz
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.
I will give you an example of this that I just experienced yesterday.Originally posted by sapphire
I have had sex with women to whom I supposedly was not there type. It all goes back to the addage: don't listen to what a woman says, but look what she does.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
This girl I was seeing who I just broke up with but decided to stay friends with went out with me after work to hang out for happy hour. Long story short, we were trying to work the FWB relationship, and she didn't want to do it, but we basically got to the point where we were essentially doing it, and you can tell she was trying to act like she was trying to stop me, but she didn't. She said all this stuff, and in the end, I was still doing stuff to her. She could have gotten mad and just completely run off, but she put up a little resistance, then just gave in.