"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says this
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
i always thought it was some sort of challenge or something, but then again it's like she's tryna make u jump thru hoops to gain her interests...
thanks for clearing that up rgeere ^^
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.Originally posted by rgeere
It means that it invalidates any sort of "fluff talk" she is telling you to try to soften the blow of rejection ...
Basically, she doesn't want to hurt you, so is telling you what may or may not be BS to try to comfort you because she doesn't perfer you.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
In logic this is truth, in illogic this is false ... She more than likely just has other priorities and wishes you the best ...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She decided you two wern't compatible with oneanother - It happens ...Originally posted by christz
but what happens if you have already had sex and what not with the girl and then she turns around and says your not my type.
I will give you an example of this that I just experienced yesterday.Originally posted by sapphire
I have had sex with women to whom I supposedly was not there type. It all goes back to the addage: don't listen to what a woman says, but look what she does.
Many women are confused anyways and half don't really know what they want.
This girl I was seeing who I just broke up with but decided to stay friends with went out with me after work to hang out for happy hour. Long story short, we were trying to work the FWB relationship, and she didn't want to do it, but we basically got to the point where we were essentially doing it, and you can tell she was trying to act like she was trying to stop me, but she didn't. She said all this stuff, and in the end, I was still doing stuff to her. She could have gotten mad and just completely run off, but she put up a little resistance, then just gave in.