"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a girl talks to everyone except you....

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There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Make a move mate :flowers:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does she take any notice of you when you're not alone? When you are alone and you start a conversation, is she actually into the conversation, does she show any sign of shyness?

It could be that she's being polite and responding your initation of the convo. There's not many girls that would be outright rude and ignore you if you say something.

Strike up a conversation with her when other people are around. See what happens.
 

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last girl that liked me did that EXACT SAME THING. I before thought she didn't like me or something (or something I said, didn't want to be friends now).......
 

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John_Taylor said:
There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)

Why are you bothering with a girl with a boyfriend? Is it because there's ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE WOMEN IN YOUR AREA??? Instead of bothering with a chick that's having relationship problems. Why don't you devote your time to women WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!!! Namely SINGLE AVAILABLE WOMEN THAT CAN HANG OUT!!!

Concerning this chick that her name. WHEN YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE GOING ON, she if see's available. If so, that her to the bar, get few drinks in her and try to smash. If you don't smash, give her your number. If she wants to kick it, she'll call. If not eff it.

You guys kill with this incessant pursuit of women in relationships. I really don't see what's so hard about hollering at chicks that don't have boyfriends, husbands, or kids.
 
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