"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a girl talks to everyone except you....

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There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Make a move mate :flowers:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Does she take any notice of you when you're not alone? When you are alone and you start a conversation, is she actually into the conversation, does she show any sign of shyness?

It could be that she's being polite and responding your initation of the convo. There's not many girls that would be outright rude and ignore you if you say something.

Strike up a conversation with her when other people are around. See what happens.
 
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last girl that liked me did that EXACT SAME THING. I before thought she didn't like me or something (or something I said, didn't want to be friends now).......
 
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John_Taylor said:
There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)
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Why are you bothering with a girl with a boyfriend? Is it because there's ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE WOMEN IN YOUR AREA??? Instead of bothering with a chick that's having relationship problems. Why don't you devote your time to women WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!!! Namely SINGLE AVAILABLE WOMEN THAT CAN HANG OUT!!!

Concerning this chick that her name. WHEN YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE GOING ON, she if see's available. If so, that her to the bar, get few drinks in her and try to smash. If you don't smash, give her your number. If she wants to kick it, she'll call. If not eff it.

You guys kill with this incessant pursuit of women in relationships. I really don't see what's so hard about hollering at chicks that don't have boyfriends, husbands, or kids.
 
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