"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a girl talks to everyone except you....

John_Taylor

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There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make a move mate :flowers:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does she take any notice of you when you're not alone? When you are alone and you start a conversation, is she actually into the conversation, does she show any sign of shyness?

It could be that she's being polite and responding your initation of the convo. There's not many girls that would be outright rude and ignore you if you say something.

Strike up a conversation with her when other people are around. See what happens.
 

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last girl that liked me did that EXACT SAME THING. I before thought she didn't like me or something (or something I said, didn't want to be friends now).......
 

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John_Taylor said:
There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)

Why are you bothering with a girl with a boyfriend? Is it because there's ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE WOMEN IN YOUR AREA??? Instead of bothering with a chick that's having relationship problems. Why don't you devote your time to women WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!!! Namely SINGLE AVAILABLE WOMEN THAT CAN HANG OUT!!!

Concerning this chick that her name. WHEN YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE GOING ON, she if see's available. If so, that her to the bar, get few drinks in her and try to smash. If you don't smash, give her your number. If she wants to kick it, she'll call. If not eff it.

You guys kill with this incessant pursuit of women in relationships. I really don't see what's so hard about hollering at chicks that don't have boyfriends, husbands, or kids.
 
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