"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When a girl talks to everyone except you....

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There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make a move mate :flowers:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does she take any notice of you when you're not alone? When you are alone and you start a conversation, is she actually into the conversation, does she show any sign of shyness?

It could be that she's being polite and responding your initation of the convo. There's not many girls that would be outright rude and ignore you if you say something.

Strike up a conversation with her when other people are around. See what happens.
 

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last girl that liked me did that EXACT SAME THING. I before thought she didn't like me or something (or something I said, didn't want to be friends now).......
 

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John_Taylor said:
There's one girl I hang out with, she talks to everyone it seems except me.
She has self esteem issues although every guy says she gorgeous.
Sometimes she would smile at me and look happy to see me, but usually only when we are alone.
Alone she would talk to me sometimes but alone when I start the conversation.
I'm pretty good looking and have high status for my age (I'll spare you of why).
She has a bf she fights with all the time, I currently am just "dating" (noone in particular as nothing is worth working out.)

Why are you bothering with a girl with a boyfriend? Is it because there's ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE WOMEN IN YOUR AREA??? Instead of bothering with a chick that's having relationship problems. Why don't you devote your time to women WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!!! Namely SINGLE AVAILABLE WOMEN THAT CAN HANG OUT!!!

Concerning this chick that her name. WHEN YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE GOING ON, she if see's available. If so, that her to the bar, get few drinks in her and try to smash. If you don't smash, give her your number. If she wants to kick it, she'll call. If not eff it.

You guys kill with this incessant pursuit of women in relationships. I really don't see what's so hard about hollering at chicks that don't have boyfriends, husbands, or kids.
 
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