"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wheat Waffles reveals himself in this brutal Ask Random Strangers about Attraction Video

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I got rated by Waffles once upon a time. I got 4/10. He says I might be able to bump that up to a 5/10 if I get lean enough to make my facial bones pop.
 

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I got rated by Waffles once upon a time. I got 4/10. He says I might be able to bump that up to a 5/10 if I get lean enough to make my facial bones pop.
Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
 

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The girls are rating the guys attractiveness while projecting the way each guy makes them feel like he acts. In other words, "he looks angry (therefore not attractive), ect, etc." I wouldn't take their opinions seriously.
 

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Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
I got a second opinion from another rater and was bumped down to 3.75/10.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wonder how tall Waffles is?

Lol at some of the comments the girls were making. The selfie in the mirror meant the guy was stuck on himself, but the professional shots were too try hard. These women seem to be great at finding reasons to reject a guy.

I've always said that a woman saying a guy is cute is a compliment. Some guys around here think it is an insult, sort of like "NICE guy". As opposed to nice guy, which can also be a compliment.
 

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Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
 

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this guy sounds and looks like a sociopath first all

second of all , it is not like a woman would tell on a camera if she would really bang a guy or not

if you pay attention , women mainly imagine how this guy is in reality and the picture it is used for projection . This means that looks alone is not the factor between getting laid or not , once you pass through the initial screening

these type of videos are mental masturbation

but he is a smart guy , he makes money out of losers
 
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Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
Wheat Waffles is the YouTube content creator with the higher subscriber count in the black pill space.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you pay attention , women mainly imagine how this guy is in reality and the picture it is used for projection . This means that looks alone is not the factor between getting laid or not , once you pass through the initial screening
I agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.
 

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I agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.
they think about how you are as a guy . What your life is , if you have good social skills , etc etc

that is why people say to put pictures with you doing cool stuff , or that show that you are sociable etc etc

it is easy to say that “ women are picky” it is more difficult to do something about it

most of the blockers in dating are actual things that can easily be bypassed if you have a decent social intelligence . But I guess that it is much easier to blame someone else than to blame yourself

but you see … being good with women is a closed loop . You can not be good with women if you are not already good with women or have a high social intelligence , because you will never understand what you are doing wrong . That is why for women is a big and important clue if you are good with the ladies or not , because it denotes a lot of things that they are looking for without having to test you or hear you talk . Saves them a lot of time and effort

don”t hate the player , you would do the same if your phone would be full of vaginas that want to f8ck you . You would start screening them , and you would start rejecting them based on stupid reasons
 
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Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.
 

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Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.
how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?

guys do not rate like women , and women do not rate like guys
 

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how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
Happens on here often enough. Just saying. I don't really have an opinion either way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?

guys do not rate like women , and women do not rate like guys
That's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"
 

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That's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"
you see , signs of low social intelligence

if you would have high social intelligence you would understand how things work , and where you fail

way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look

and most importantly , you do not know how to improve what you have . That is the key
 

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you see , signs of low social intelligence

if you would have high social intelligence you would understand how things work , and where you fail

way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look

and most importantly , you do not know how to improve what you have . That is the key
The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."
 

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It's interesting that these girls are so critical of these guys, because IMO I would say most of those guys are above average.

way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
I would never submit my pictures to a rating service, but I understand why guys would do it. Guys don't have the success they're looking for with women, and want to know why. They want to know if they are attractive or not, or if their looks are holding them back. They're not getting the feedback that tells them where they stand, or at least not in any constructive way. I was mystified by this myself when I was younger - on one hand I was very conceited, but at the same time I was very insecure. It just turns out that it doesn't matter what someone rates you as, because some other girl might like the way you look.

The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."
Good point. Guys who get some don't know why they do. Another guy might try the same thing and fail miserably. People are a whole package, that's why PUAs talk about authenticity, all the parts have to match together.

I am a big believer in "Be yourself" though. Who else can you be? But be your best self, not your loser self.
 

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The interviews are pointless and so is the criticism of their answers, didnt even watch the video. The women are unlikely to give an honest answer if they think it could have any consequence, not only socially as you would assume when they are on the spot like this, but also for how they feel about themselves.

If you want to get closer to the truth you either have to watch what they do, or have a more sophisticated method of extracting their real feelings than just taking what they say at face value.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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