Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.I got rated by Waffles once upon a time. I got 4/10. He says I might be able to bump that up to a 5/10 if I get lean enough to make my facial bones pop.
The girls are rating the guys attractiveness while projecting the way each guy makes them feel like he acts. In other words, "he looks angry (therefore not attractive), ect, etc." I wouldn't take their opinions seriously.
I got a second opinion from another rater and was bumped down to 3.75/10.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
He's a bit after your time, but he's something of a notable in the manosphere/looksosphere.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
this guy sounds and looks like a sociopath first all
Wheat Waffles is the YouTube content creator with the higher subscriber count in the black pill space.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.if you pay attention , women mainly imagine how this guy is in reality and the picture it is used for projection . This means that looks alone is not the factor between getting laid or not , once you pass through the initial screening
they think about how you are as a guy . What your life is , if you have good social skills , etc etcI agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.
Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.
Happens on here often enough. Just saying. I don't really have an opinion either way.how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
guys do not rate like women , and women do not rate like guys
you see , signs of low social intelligenceThat's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"
The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."you see , signs of low social intelligence
if you would have high social intelligence you would understand how things work , and where you fail
way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
and most importantly , you do not know how to improve what you have . That is the key
I would never submit my pictures to a rating service, but I understand why guys would do it. Guys don't have the success they're looking for with women, and want to know why. They want to know if they are attractive or not, or if their looks are holding them back. They're not getting the feedback that tells them where they stand, or at least not in any constructive way. I was mystified by this myself when I was younger - on one hand I was very conceited, but at the same time I was very insecure. It just turns out that it doesn't matter what someone rates you as, because some other girl might like the way you look.way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
Good point. Guys who get some don't know why they do. Another guy might try the same thing and fail miserably. People are a whole package, that's why PUAs talk about authenticity, all the parts have to match together.The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.