Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.I got rated by Waffles once upon a time. I got 4/10. He says I might be able to bump that up to a 5/10 if I get lean enough to make my facial bones pop.
The girls are rating the guys attractiveness while projecting the way each guy makes them feel like he acts. In other words, "he looks angry (therefore not attractive), ect, etc." I wouldn't take their opinions seriously.
I got a second opinion from another rater and was bumped down to 3.75/10.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
He's a bit after your time, but he's something of a notable in the manosphere/looksosphere.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
this guy sounds and looks like a sociopath first all
Wheat Waffles is the YouTube content creator with the higher subscriber count in the black pill space.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.if you pay attention , women mainly imagine how this guy is in reality and the picture it is used for projection . This means that looks alone is not the factor between getting laid or not , once you pass through the initial screening
they think about how you are as a guy . What your life is , if you have good social skills , etc etcI agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.
Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.
Happens on here often enough. Just saying. I don't really have an opinion either way.how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
guys do not rate like women , and women do not rate like guys
you see , signs of low social intelligenceThat's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"
The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."you see , signs of low social intelligence
if you would have high social intelligence you would understand how things work , and where you fail
way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
and most importantly , you do not know how to improve what you have . That is the key
I would never submit my pictures to a rating service, but I understand why guys would do it. Guys don't have the success they're looking for with women, and want to know why. They want to know if they are attractive or not, or if their looks are holding them back. They're not getting the feedback that tells them where they stand, or at least not in any constructive way. I was mystified by this myself when I was younger - on one hand I was very conceited, but at the same time I was very insecure. It just turns out that it doesn't matter what someone rates you as, because some other girl might like the way you look.way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
Good point. Guys who get some don't know why they do. Another guy might try the same thing and fail miserably. People are a whole package, that's why PUAs talk about authenticity, all the parts have to match together.The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.