Jake_Gyllenhaal69
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 9, 2021
- Messages
- 3,442
- Reaction score
- 2,751
- Age
- 31
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.I got rated by Waffles once upon a time. I got 4/10. He says I might be able to bump that up to a 5/10 if I get lean enough to make my facial bones pop.
The girls are rating the guys attractiveness while projecting the way each guy makes them feel like he acts. In other words, "he looks angry (therefore not attractive), ect, etc." I wouldn't take their opinions seriously.
I got a second opinion from another rater and was bumped down to 3.75/10.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
He's a bit after your time, but he's something of a notable in the manosphere/looksosphere.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
this guy sounds and looks like a sociopath first all
Wheat Waffles is the YouTube content creator with the higher subscriber count in the black pill space.Who the fvck is a wheat waffles anyways? Why should I care?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.if you pay attention , women mainly imagine how this guy is in reality and the picture it is used for projection . This means that looks alone is not the factor between getting laid or not , once you pass through the initial screening
they think about how you are as a guy . What your life is , if you have good social skills , etc etcI agree that showing a girl a picture is not the same thing as being there in person. Although maybe the picture is more relevant these days since OLD is so popular. But it does show the thought process these girls go through, they're very picky.
Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.Said the same thing with me, 3/10 but if I lost weight and had more facial definition then it could be 5/10. He recommended warm approach or travelling to SEA where guys are shorter. Mainly had height going for me at 5'11.
how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?Damn man I feel better about my 6 now, well 5 but he gave me a extra point for height and gym effort. Pretty humbling though.
Happens on here often enough. Just saying. I don't really have an opinion either way.how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"how G4y is for guys to ask other guys to rate them ?
guys do not rate like women , and women do not rate like guys
you see , signs of low social intelligenceThat's how I felt too, but where am I supposed to go to get women's honest opinions of me? You can't just put women, or people in general, on the spot with questions like "But would you **** me? Honestly? If you've got nothin' else goin' on tonight why not **** me?"
The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."you see , signs of low social intelligence
if you would have high social intelligence you would understand how things work , and where you fail
way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
and most importantly , you do not know how to improve what you have . That is the key
I would never submit my pictures to a rating service, but I understand why guys would do it. Guys don't have the success they're looking for with women, and want to know why. They want to know if they are attractive or not, or if their looks are holding them back. They're not getting the feedback that tells them where they stand, or at least not in any constructive way. I was mystified by this myself when I was younger - on one hand I was very conceited, but at the same time I was very insecure. It just turns out that it doesn't matter what someone rates you as, because some other girl might like the way you look.way better to observe the guys who get some , than to ask a guy that looks and talks like a sociopath how he thinks you look
Good point. Guys who get some don't know why they do. Another guy might try the same thing and fail miserably. People are a whole package, that's why PUAs talk about authenticity, all the parts have to match together.The guys who get some don't know why they get some. People in general tend to not know themselves as other people know them. This is why people like Meeks give bull**** advice like "Just be yourself."
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.