"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whats your way of giving back to people?

RazorRambo24

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I think everyone should have something they do to give back to people/humanity/society.. It just helps you feel good as a person, as well as creates ripples in the world that can lead to great change.

I'm not going to toot my own horn here.. but I contribute to charity quite often and physically go and do things to help others at least once a month. Won't get into all the specifics because it's not about me..

For some of those who don't have anything you contribute to the world and want to:
Check out some of these:
Big Brother (become a youth mentor)

Great website to find a buncha diff volunteer opportunities:
VolunteerMatch.org

You can find local farmers to support here:

You can donate blood for those in need,

You can do simple stuff like find some seniors/elders around you and help them with things.
I think there's a website too elder.org

You can volunteer as a firefighter..

You can also find your local homeless communities and just go and feed them, one of the easiest things to do.

Some of you are banging fat chicks/whales.. you are already doing your part for humanity, so I salute you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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patb

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I think everyone should have something they do to give back to people/humanity/society..
Society and humanity sure have done a lot for me. Truly I owe them a great deal indeed.
 

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I volunteer at the boys and girls club. Reason being that place is filled with women so I put activities for boys including proper form for body weight exercises, nutrition meal plans (do not drink soy milk or anything that includes soy in its ingredients) how to change a tire, change oil, how to play instruments, etc.

That last time I was at a casino playing a poker tournament I was using the gentleman’s room on my way back from dinner break, I saw an elderly man as a janitor cleaning the stalls, sinks and I handed him a crisp $20. The senior citizen lit up and said, “thank you, you are too kind” with a smile that made his day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Atom Smasher

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Helping you guys to stop scaring women away.

Seriously, though, the older I get, the more I realize that life is all about service to others. Nothing is more gratifying than helping out people in need. Sacrifice for the betterment of others really does tangibly help the world to be a better place because there’s a ripple effect. The person helped is likely to pass a similar kindness on to another person, and so on. It grows exponentially until the ripple loses energy.
Let’s keep injecting the world with selfless acts of kindness. By loving this way we are having a far more powerful effect on our world than we can imagine.
 

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I give friends money and advice.
 

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Coach childrens sports
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Serve on Boards for Educational institutions.

Give Blood and donate semen...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RazorRambo24

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I was wondering why people reacted with the laugh emojij and totally forgot I threw in a joke at the end xD

It's awesome to see so many people doing alot of cool things to give back. It is truly fulfilling to give back and make others feel good by doing good deeds and random acts of kindness. Definitely something that not only makes me feel good, but keeps me balanced.
 

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Helping you guys to stop scaring women away.

Seriously, though, the older I get, the more I realize that life is all about service to others. Nothing is more gratifying than helping out people in need. Sacrifice for the betterment of others really does tangibly help the world to be a better place because there’s a ripple effect. The person helped is likely to pass a similar kindness on to another person, and so on. It grows exponentially until the ripple loses energy.
Let’s keep injecting the world with selfless acts of kindness. By loving this way we are having a far more powerful effect on our world than we can imagine.
Ladies and Gentlemen, proof all Boomers aren't bad.
 

Atom Smasher

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Helping you guys to stop scaring women away.

Seriously, though, the older I get, the more I realize that life is all about service to others. Nothing is more gratifying than helping out people in need. Sacrifice for the betterment of others really does tangibly help the world to be a better place because there’s a ripple effect. The person helped is likely to pass a similar kindness on to another person, and so on. It grows exponentially until the ripple loses energy.
Let’s keep injecting the world with selfless acts of kindness. By loving this way we are having a far more powerful effect on our world than we can imagine.
Autocorrect. By LIVING this way*
 

patb

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Helping you guys to stop scaring women away.

Seriously, though, the older I get, the more I realize that life is all about service to others. Nothing is more gratifying than helping out people in need. Sacrifice for the betterment of others really does tangibly help the world to be a better place because there’s a ripple effect. The person helped is likely to pass a similar kindness on to another person, and so on. It grows exponentially until the ripple loses energy.
Let’s keep injecting the world with selfless acts of kindness. By loving this way we are having a far more powerful effect on our world than we can imagine.
What on earth would ever give you the impression that any of these people deserve “betterment?” In most cases, a service to humanity is a disservice to justice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I volunteer at the boys and girls club. Reason being that place is filled with women so I put activities for boys including proper form for body weight exercises, nutrition meal plans (do not drink soy milk or anything that includes soy in its ingredients) how to change a tire, change oil, how to play instruments, etc.

That last time I was at a casino playing a poker tournament I was using the gentleman’s room on my way back from dinner break, I saw an elderly man as a janitor cleaning the stalls, sinks and I handed him a crisp $20. The senior citizen lit up and said, “thank you, you are too kind” with a smile that made his day.
In my best Denzel voice...

"Brrriiinnnngggg!! You hear that sound? That's the 3 O'clock bell. For 20 million kids, that means they've got nowhere to go and nothing to do. Gives a whole new meaning to the 3 O'clock bell, doesn't it?

It's time to support the boys and girls club. Go to greatfutures.org"
 

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My sons and I donate our time every year to built bikes for a local charity. The bikes go to kids and young adults to enable them to have transportation for work/school or just the basic freedom to explore that a bike can provide. Last year we had boys from the neighborhood and school join our group. The boys learn basic mechanical skills, how to appreciate what they have, how to give without expectations and a sense of community with other people. My son was super excited one year when the family next to us got a special bike for their daughter that could not walk. The experience left a lasting impression on him.

I ride bikes with buddies and I am the token mechanic during and after rides. Payment is good times and cold beer.
 

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Give money to food charity and other ministries.
 

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I think everyone should have something they do to give back to people/humanity/society.. It just helps you feel good as a person, as well as creates ripples in the world that can lead to great change.

I'm not going to toot my own horn here.. but I contribute to charity quite often and physically go and do things to help others at least once a month. Won't get into all the specifics because it's not about me..

For some of those who don't have anything you contribute to the world and want to:
Check out some of these:
Big Brother (become a youth mentor)

Great website to find a buncha diff volunteer opportunities:
VolunteerMatch.org

You can find local farmers to support here:

You can donate blood for those in need,

You can do simple stuff like find some seniors/elders around you and help them with things.
I think there's a website too elder.org

You can volunteer as a firefighter..

You can also find your local homeless communities and just go and feed them, one of the easiest things to do.

Some of you are banging fat chicks/whales.. you are already doing your part for humanity, so I salute you.
STDs are the gift that keeps on giving.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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