Cheeky_James
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?If you go down the wig road,just make sure its applied properly,maintained,and not a piece of cheap crap from Ebay. In my previous workplace,I came across many such blokes,and its amazing how they open up to you,Iv seen some wigs that were indectectable,was amazed when told,and some that even Stevie Wonder could spot. You cannot buy a wig for £10,slap it on your head any old how and expect it to look real,and yet,iv seen many blokes do exactly this
I liked Travolta`s rug in Resovoir Dogs was it,the long haired one,but thats just me I reckon!could work @Jor-El for sure
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I think I’m nightgame , where it’s darker, such wigs could be undetectable tbh.
Yeah, well one of my mates had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that roadAre you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?
I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
are you an Aussie lolI liked Travolta`s rug in Resovoir Dogs was it,the long haired one,but thats just me I reckon!
Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after thatare you an Aussie lol
It was Pulp Fiction- Vincent Vega
Some hair systems do look really good. But yeah I imagine it might get uncomfortable to wear.Yeah, well one of my mate had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
Fabio agreesAha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
I remember dating a chick (we were in out late '20s) about the time that Connery had been named "Sexiest Man Alive" at age 62, and she said that indeed, "he is a very sexy man". BRUTAL MOG!Just get a hair piece like Sean Connery
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Antoine LaConte also agreesAha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that


Perfect hazel, hunter eyes; a jaw goinal angle that could be used as a protractor; such a great hairline that he grows it out like a chick just to mog everyone even more; height & frame, and just look how his wrist mogs the watch.Fabio agrees
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god damn.
just look at him. lol.
nah bro.. looks don’t matterPerfect hazel, hunter eyes; a jaw goinal angle that could be used as a protractor; such a great hairline that he grows it out like a chick just to mog everyone even more; height & frame, and just look how his wrist mogs the watch.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.