"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you go down the wig road,just make sure its applied properly,maintained,and not a piece of cheap crap from Ebay. In my previous workplace,I came across many such blokes,and its amazing how they open up to you,Iv seen some wigs that were indectectable,was amazed when told,and some that even Stevie Wonder could spot. You cannot buy a wig for £10,slap it on your head any old how and expect it to look real,and yet,iv seen many blokes do exactly this
Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?

I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
 

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Shpeaking of Connery.. :D

If that gave you a lol , definitely check out Arnie in ‘Predator The Musicial’.. it’s a ripper :rofl:
 

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Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?

I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
Yeah, well one of my mates had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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are you an Aussie lol
It was Pulp Fiction- Vincent Vega
Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
 

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Yeah, well one of my mate had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
Some hair systems do look really good. But yeah I imagine it might get uncomfortable to wear.

Plus, if a chick starts grabbing the top of your head when things get hot and heavy, it could be a problem.
 

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Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
Fabio agrees

god damn.
just look at him. lol.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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@MatureDJ
I recently had an app chat w a chick about Indiana Jones movies. He favorite was The Last Crusade “cos it has TWO of the hottest guys in that”

and Connery was bald in that movie..

hey so maybe there is hope after all. (Just follow your S with an H ) :rofl:
 

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Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
Antoine LaConte also agrees

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This is interesting
I did not know about Matthew MacConaghey
This stuff is rife in Hollywood….
Ted Danson, Brendan Fraser.. there’s a big list


There is also speculation about Jimmy Fallon
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