Cheeky_James
Master Don Juan
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?If you go down the wig road,just make sure its applied properly,maintained,and not a piece of cheap crap from Ebay. In my previous workplace,I came across many such blokes,and its amazing how they open up to you,Iv seen some wigs that were indectectable,was amazed when told,and some that even Stevie Wonder could spot. You cannot buy a wig for £10,slap it on your head any old how and expect it to look real,and yet,iv seen many blokes do exactly this
I liked Travolta`s rug in Resovoir Dogs was it,the long haired one,but thats just me I reckon!could work @Jor-El for sure
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I think I’m nightgame , where it’s darker, such wigs could be undetectable tbh.
Yeah, well one of my mates had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that roadAre you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?
I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
are you an Aussie lolI liked Travolta`s rug in Resovoir Dogs was it,the long haired one,but thats just me I reckon!
Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after thatare you an Aussie lol
It was Pulp Fiction- Vincent Vega
Some hair systems do look really good. But yeah I imagine it might get uncomfortable to wear.Yeah, well one of my mate had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
Fabio agreesAha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that