Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In any case on the topic... Thievery Corporation is pretty powerful stuff when wiht a girl
Sh!t I'm surprised anyone here even heard of them, but ya man, their beats were made for sex.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Mad props for busting out the Prefuse 73...
Yar, he's one hell of a guy.

My commentaries:
Common - Hmmm, I myself find him a bit too ... well he's a girl.
50 Cent, Fabolous, P.Diddy, Nelly - If I were a chick I'd dump your ass just for thinking of playing that.
Rock being a non DJ and rockers not bagging any chicks? You should have seen some footage from tours of 80's heavy metal bands, literally hundreds of groupies and chicks just getting in line to bang them.
 

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Some mellow classic rock. Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Meatloaf, Nazareth, throw in some Bob Dylan.

It's more about song choice than genre choice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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since i'm not the romantic type i just blast some rap...especially this one song by Ludacris,think its called "whats your fantasy". ill ****.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000

50 Cent, Fabolous, P.Diddy, Nelly - If I were a chick I'd dump your ass just for thinking of playing that.
Rock being a non DJ and rockers not bagging any chicks? You should have seen some footage from tours of 80's heavy metal bands, literally hundreds of groupies and chicks just getting in line to bang them.

You should know by now that its all about voice tone, body language, and not only what you're saying at all. When they hear these songs they can feel it, they can dance with the flow. Are you seeing chicks getting wild in a club with a rock song? LOL


Yea, 80's, old times..

Any guy who is famous bet chicks dude, rock, hip hop, pop, even country! I even saw some bands like velvet revolver stating this, that they look at the hip hop clips, and in the rock clips there aint barelly chicks nowdays, and they want to return the sex charisma to rock.
But when you look at the clips, what's on the rock clips?
And what's on the hip hop clips? The hottest chicks, dozens of them in each clip?
 

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Right, they're on the videos, but they get paid for that, it's what the chicks do. It's easy to get chicks into your video, rock bands just mostly choose not to go with that, since I believe they go for a different image.
Actually, I'd say that when you have a band or are a performer that's even moderately successfull, you'll have a ton of groupies and chicks waiting to get in touch with you in no time, regardless of the genre.
 

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Dude, u didnt understand ****!!

Its no about banging the girls, and if they are paid or not to be in the videos.
Its about WHAT THE VIDEOS MEAN!! And hip hop videos are sexually concerned in a direct way.
 
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