"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In any case on the topic... Thievery Corporation is pretty powerful stuff when wiht a girl
Sh!t I'm surprised anyone here even heard of them, but ya man, their beats were made for sex.
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Mad props for busting out the Prefuse 73...
Yar, he's one hell of a guy.

My commentaries:
Common - Hmmm, I myself find him a bit too ... well he's a girl.
50 Cent, Fabolous, P.Diddy, Nelly - If I were a chick I'd dump your ass just for thinking of playing that.
Rock being a non DJ and rockers not bagging any chicks? You should have seen some footage from tours of 80's heavy metal bands, literally hundreds of groupies and chicks just getting in line to bang them.
 

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Some mellow classic rock. Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Meatloaf, Nazareth, throw in some Bob Dylan.

It's more about song choice than genre choice.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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since i'm not the romantic type i just blast some rap...especially this one song by Ludacris,think its called "whats your fantasy". ill ****.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000

50 Cent, Fabolous, P.Diddy, Nelly - If I were a chick I'd dump your ass just for thinking of playing that.
Rock being a non DJ and rockers not bagging any chicks? You should have seen some footage from tours of 80's heavy metal bands, literally hundreds of groupies and chicks just getting in line to bang them.

You should know by now that its all about voice tone, body language, and not only what you're saying at all. When they hear these songs they can feel it, they can dance with the flow. Are you seeing chicks getting wild in a club with a rock song? LOL


Yea, 80's, old times..

Any guy who is famous bet chicks dude, rock, hip hop, pop, even country! I even saw some bands like velvet revolver stating this, that they look at the hip hop clips, and in the rock clips there aint barelly chicks nowdays, and they want to return the sex charisma to rock.
But when you look at the clips, what's on the rock clips?
And what's on the hip hop clips? The hottest chicks, dozens of them in each clip?
 

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Right, they're on the videos, but they get paid for that, it's what the chicks do. It's easy to get chicks into your video, rock bands just mostly choose not to go with that, since I believe they go for a different image.
Actually, I'd say that when you have a band or are a performer that's even moderately successfull, you'll have a ton of groupies and chicks waiting to get in touch with you in no time, regardless of the genre.
 

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Dude, u didnt understand ****!!

Its no about banging the girls, and if they are paid or not to be in the videos.
Its about WHAT THE VIDEOS MEAN!! And hip hop videos are sexually concerned in a direct way.
 
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