"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's your best flake line

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As in, how do you flake on girls?

I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1ncredible said:
One that you can use over and over to the same girl?
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Not over and over. Just need to postpone our Thursday night drinks date until next week (I have a hotter girl that Im slotting in for Thursday).

Also, Im going to Vegas on Friday so I can't see her any sooner than next week.
 
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go ghost.... hit her up next week and act like nothing happened. why u being a pvssy.
 
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Seriously? Seems a little harsh.

I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Emergency at the hospital, I'm needed in the ER!

(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
 
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Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
 
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1ncredible said:
Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
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the most chliched flake phrase in the book!!! yeah!! try that!!!:rolleyes:
 
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CaConfused said:
Watchoo got then Purefilth?
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I gave you a goodun :up:
Unless you have a problem with a few white lies to get women into bed (which i know you don't since you're flaking to bed another one;) )
If she knows you're not a doctor, then its translated as a friend/ family in need.

if she aint ok with it then next that chick anyway:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so you're replacing one girl with another and have to ask us how to do it tastefully.... Why is it important you see the hotter girl on thursday?
 
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