CaConfused
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As in, how do you flake on girls?
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What's your best flake line
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1ncredible
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One that you can use over and over to the same girl?
CaConfused
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Not over and over. Just need to postpone our Thursday night drinks date until next week (I have a hotter girl that Im slotting in for Thursday).1ncredible said:
Also, Im going to Vegas on Friday so I can't see her any sooner than next week.
CaConfused
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Seriously? Seems a little harsh.
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Purefilth
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Emergency at the hospital, I'm needed in the ER!
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
1ncredible
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Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
Purefilth
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the most chliched flake phrase in the book!!! yeah!! try that!!!1ncredible said:
CaConfused
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Watchoo got then Purefilth?
Purefilth
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I gave you a goodunCaConfused said:
Unless you have a problem with a few white lies to get women into bed (which i know you don't since you're flaking to bed another one
)If she knows you're not a doctor, then its translated as a friend/ family in need.
if she aint ok with it then next that chick anyway
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Just be honest and tell her you can't meet her, what is the big deal?