CaConfused
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As in, how do you flake on girls?
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What's your best flake line
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
1ncredible
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One that you can use over and over to the same girl?
CaConfused
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Not over and over. Just need to postpone our Thursday night drinks date until next week (I have a hotter girl that Im slotting in for Thursday).1ncredible said:
Also, Im going to Vegas on Friday so I can't see her any sooner than next week.
CaConfused
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Seriously? Seems a little harsh.
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Purefilth
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Emergency at the hospital, I'm needed in the ER!
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
1ncredible
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Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
Purefilth
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the most chliched flake phrase in the book!!! yeah!! try that!!!1ncredible said:
CaConfused
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Watchoo got then Purefilth?
Purefilth
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I gave you a goodunCaConfused said:
Unless you have a problem with a few white lies to get women into bed (which i know you don't since you're flaking to bed another one
)If she knows you're not a doctor, then its translated as a friend/ family in need.
if she aint ok with it then next that chick anyway
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
stevejabba
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Just be honest and tell her you can't meet her, what is the big deal?