CaConfused
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As in, how do you flake on girls?
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What's your best flake line
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
1ncredible
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One that you can use over and over to the same girl?
CaConfused
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Not over and over. Just need to postpone our Thursday night drinks date until next week (I have a hotter girl that Im slotting in for Thursday).1ncredible said:
Also, Im going to Vegas on Friday so I can't see her any sooner than next week.
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Seriously? Seems a little harsh.
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Purefilth
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Emergency at the hospital, I'm needed in the ER!
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
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Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
Purefilth
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the most chliched flake phrase in the book!!! yeah!! try that!!!1ncredible said:
CaConfused
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Watchoo got then Purefilth?
Purefilth
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I gave you a goodunCaConfused said:
Unless you have a problem with a few white lies to get women into bed (which i know you don't since you're flaking to bed another one
)If she knows you're not a doctor, then its translated as a friend/ family in need.
if she aint ok with it then next that chick anyway
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Just be honest and tell her you can't meet her, what is the big deal?