CaConfused
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As in, how do you flake on girls?
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
I need a good line asap that will keep her on the hook.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What's your best flake line
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1ncredible
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One that you can use over and over to the same girl?
CaConfused
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Not over and over. Just need to postpone our Thursday night drinks date until next week (I have a hotter girl that Im slotting in for Thursday).1ncredible said:
Also, Im going to Vegas on Friday so I can't see her any sooner than next week.
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Seriously? Seems a little harsh.
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
I texted her on Monday with the place and time. Don't you think she'll end up there?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Purefilth
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Emergency at the hospital, I'm needed in the ER!
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
(doesn't matter that you aint really a doctor)
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Say you "can't make it as something important has cropped up" but give her another date/time. Don't just stand her up though.
Purefilth
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the most chliched flake phrase in the book!!! yeah!! try that!!!1ncredible said:
CaConfused
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Watchoo got then Purefilth?
Purefilth
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I gave you a goodunCaConfused said:
Unless you have a problem with a few white lies to get women into bed (which i know you don't since you're flaking to bed another one
)If she knows you're not a doctor, then its translated as a friend/ family in need.
if she aint ok with it then next that chick anyway
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Just be honest and tell her you can't meet her, what is the big deal?