"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's wrong with the discussion forum?

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I mean the general discussion forum. Where have all the threads gone??

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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all the threads are there, the link on the main page doesn't work

if you click on general discussion, then look up at the URL there's a place where it says number=1

change it to number=2 and then they'll show up

link needs to be fixed

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
all the threads are there, the link on the main page doesn't work

if you click on general discussion, then look up at the URL there's a place where it says number=1

change it to number=2 and then they'll show up

link needs to be fixed

Doing that (if I understood you correctly) puts me in the high school forum.

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Yes I just realized that. My mistake.

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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I knew it! Someone must not have liked my last post and nuked the whole forum. Whoever ya are, you really went too far this time!

Sigh. All gone. All those great posts, and now they're gone forever. (ok, just a little Sunday afternoon melodrama.)
 

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But seriously now...

It's the filtering apparently. If you try to filter it down to the last ten days, or even the last year it chokes. But if you select to show ALL posts, then you get the threads.

Probably the same issue as the search feature which has been choking recently. Maybe the database software can't handle that many threads. Too bad, because in the scheme of things 5800 threads is not all that much. My usenet newsreader has over 100,000 searchable threads on my hard drive.

DB
 

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Yep it works when you choose "show all topics." The Turner Ohvur post has thousands of replies. It's written by a guy called no
 

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The "Turner Ohver" post might be messing things up, or it might just be a symptom.

When you said it had thousands of replies I thought someone played a prank and posted a super long thread that mucked up the system.

But actually it lists as having 2 BILLION replies which is impossible--it would take several lifetimes to post that many replies so it might just be a symptom of something going wrong in the system.

I hope the sosuave administrator is working on this.

DB
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've found the post that has caused the problem.

Here it is:
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012813.html

I don't know WHY this thread caused the problem, I only know that it DID. I hope this helps.



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you mean this one?
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/13.html
it has like 2 million replies


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Originally posted by Amlothi:
you mean this one?
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/13.html
it has like 2 million replies


The link that you posted was intended to be the one that I posted, but got truncated. It then got all goofy. Who knows why.



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"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
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"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Does everything look normal to everyone now?
No. The Search Function is completely dead if you try searching the “Don Juan Discussion” forum. It works in the other forums.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SoSuave.com administrator wrote:
Does everything look normal to everyone now?


Yes, everything looks normal aside from a few posts by confirmed AFCs.
 

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Search is working again. When the index file for a particular forum reaches a certain size, the search function stops working in that forum.

I'll try to find a solution for this problem, but right now we'll just have to keep the main DJD forum limited to somewhere around 42 or 43 thousand posts.
 

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
I'll try to find a solution for this problem, but right now we'll just have to keep the main DJD forum limited to somewhere around 42 or 43 thousand posts.
Now how are we supposed to get by with only 42 or 43 thousand posts?




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"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
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