"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's wrong with the discussion forum?

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I mean the general discussion forum. Where have all the threads gone??

[This message has been edited by Anson (edited 03-17-2002).]
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amlothi

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all the threads are there, the link on the main page doesn't work

if you click on general discussion, then look up at the URL there's a place where it says number=1

change it to number=2 and then they'll show up

link needs to be fixed

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Originally posted by Amlothi:
all the threads are there, the link on the main page doesn't work

if you click on general discussion, then look up at the URL there's a place where it says number=1

change it to number=2 and then they'll show up

link needs to be fixed

Doing that (if I understood you correctly) puts me in the high school forum.

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Yes I just realized that. My mistake.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I knew it! Someone must not have liked my last post and nuked the whole forum. Whoever ya are, you really went too far this time!

Sigh. All gone. All those great posts, and now they're gone forever. (ok, just a little Sunday afternoon melodrama.)
 

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But seriously now...

It's the filtering apparently. If you try to filter it down to the last ten days, or even the last year it chokes. But if you select to show ALL posts, then you get the threads.

Probably the same issue as the search feature which has been choking recently. Maybe the database software can't handle that many threads. Too bad, because in the scheme of things 5800 threads is not all that much. My usenet newsreader has over 100,000 searchable threads on my hard drive.

DB
 

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Yep it works when you choose "show all topics." The Turner Ohvur post has thousands of replies. It's written by a guy called no
 

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The "Turner Ohver" post might be messing things up, or it might just be a symptom.

When you said it had thousands of replies I thought someone played a prank and posted a super long thread that mucked up the system.

But actually it lists as having 2 BILLION replies which is impossible--it would take several lifetimes to post that many replies so it might just be a symptom of something going wrong in the system.

I hope the sosuave administrator is working on this.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've found the post that has caused the problem.

Here it is:
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012813.html

I don't know WHY this thread caused the problem, I only know that it DID. I hope this helps.



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you mean this one?
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/13.html
it has like 2 million replies


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Originally posted by Amlothi:
you mean this one?
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/13.html
it has like 2 million replies


The link that you posted was intended to be the one that I posted, but got truncated. It then got all goofy. Who knows why.



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"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Does everything look normal to everyone now?
No. The Search Function is completely dead if you try searching the “Don Juan Discussion” forum. It works in the other forums.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuave.com administrator wrote:
Does everything look normal to everyone now?


Yes, everything looks normal aside from a few posts by confirmed AFCs.
 

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Search is working again. When the index file for a particular forum reaches a certain size, the search function stops working in that forum.

I'll try to find a solution for this problem, but right now we'll just have to keep the main DJD forum limited to somewhere around 42 or 43 thousand posts.
 

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
I'll try to find a solution for this problem, but right now we'll just have to keep the main DJD forum limited to somewhere around 42 or 43 thousand posts.
Now how are we supposed to get by with only 42 or 43 thousand posts?




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"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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