MountainSlide
Master Don Juan
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I swear, everywhere I look betas. Kinda funny really.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WTF?BraddH said:Education is for the mass, the beta. There are so many world great people who never went to school or dropped out. Education in one hand is made for the beta-like people who wants someone to tell him exactly what to do for his whole life. Someone who can control them.
You could say he higher you go in education, the more beta you will see. Remember to keep yourself from becoming a beta there!
Yes, true.SmooveMooves said:Education institutions and degrees aren't as useful as they were in the past. But they're not completely useless. People who have gone to college still on average make significant more amounts of money than their college-less counterparts.
Also, theres no correlation between Education & Betaness. Most men are beta. So, anywhere your likely to see a lot of betas.
Stay DJ. Enjoy all the new betas on campus. The more there are, the more you stand.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??Bible_Belt said:I remember the hottest girl at my college had a minimum of 6-8 drooling AFCs literally orbiting around her every time I saw her. They followed her everywhere like zombies.
This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.AttackFormation said:What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hahahaha, man! that sounds really funny. Drooling AFC literally following her around in person like a cloud of dust or zombies, LOL, I can't stop laughing. I wish I could've seen it with youBible_Belt said:This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.
She was Puerto Rican and didn't speak great English. I never had much of a chance. I had a partying buddy who was the son of a billionaire from Monaco, and he drew girls like flies, so she was around a lot. She had a body like a plastic surgeon's masterpiece except it was all real.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.