MountainSlide
Master Don Juan
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I swear, everywhere I look betas. Kinda funny really.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WTF?BraddH said:Education is for the mass, the beta. There are so many world great people who never went to school or dropped out. Education in one hand is made for the beta-like people who wants someone to tell him exactly what to do for his whole life. Someone who can control them.
You could say he higher you go in education, the more beta you will see. Remember to keep yourself from becoming a beta there!
Yes, true.SmooveMooves said:Education institutions and degrees aren't as useful as they were in the past. But they're not completely useless. People who have gone to college still on average make significant more amounts of money than their college-less counterparts.
Also, theres no correlation between Education & Betaness. Most men are beta. So, anywhere your likely to see a lot of betas.
Stay DJ. Enjoy all the new betas on campus. The more there are, the more you stand.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??Bible_Belt said:I remember the hottest girl at my college had a minimum of 6-8 drooling AFCs literally orbiting around her every time I saw her. They followed her everywhere like zombies.
This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.AttackFormation said:What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hahahaha, man! that sounds really funny. Drooling AFC literally following her around in person like a cloud of dust or zombies, LOL, I can't stop laughing. I wish I could've seen it with youBible_Belt said:This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.
She was Puerto Rican and didn't speak great English. I never had much of a chance. I had a partying buddy who was the son of a billionaire from Monaco, and he drew girls like flies, so she was around a lot. She had a body like a plastic surgeon's masterpiece except it was all real.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.