MountainSlide
Master Don Juan
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I swear, everywhere I look betas. Kinda funny really.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WTF?BraddH said:Education is for the mass, the beta. There are so many world great people who never went to school or dropped out. Education in one hand is made for the beta-like people who wants someone to tell him exactly what to do for his whole life. Someone who can control them.
You could say he higher you go in education, the more beta you will see. Remember to keep yourself from becoming a beta there!
Yes, true.SmooveMooves said:Education institutions and degrees aren't as useful as they were in the past. But they're not completely useless. People who have gone to college still on average make significant more amounts of money than their college-less counterparts.
Also, theres no correlation between Education & Betaness. Most men are beta. So, anywhere your likely to see a lot of betas.
Stay DJ. Enjoy all the new betas on campus. The more there are, the more you stand.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??Bible_Belt said:I remember the hottest girl at my college had a minimum of 6-8 drooling AFCs literally orbiting around her every time I saw her. They followed her everywhere like zombies.
This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.AttackFormation said:What? haha, they followed her everywhere like zombies??
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Hahahaha, man! that sounds really funny. Drooling AFC literally following her around in person like a cloud of dust or zombies, LOL, I can't stop laughing. I wish I could've seen it with youBible_Belt said:This was before cel phones and facebook/instagram. You couldn't be a cyber-orbiter back then, you had to physically do it in person. Guys followed her like a cloud of dust. I never saw any of them get anywhere with her.
She was Puerto Rican and didn't speak great English. I never had much of a chance. I had a partying buddy who was the son of a billionaire from Monaco, and he drew girls like flies, so she was around a lot. She had a body like a plastic surgeon's masterpiece except it was all real.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.