"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What's the most angry you've gotten over rejection?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
never anything close.
external locus of control = horrible.
you shouldnt rely on anything to bring your happiness to you. you should be completely secure in yourself, such that you know that nothing really is THAT important.
anything that you cannot control is your master. is this girl who occupies literally zero role in your life that great that you should allow her to be your master? probably not.
this is essentially the idea of inner game, and yours appears to be weak from a post like this. diagnosing and recognizing the problem is the hardest part. hit the weights, pursue hobbies, understand that you are amazing as a person and get comfortable with that FACT.
as soon as you reach that point, you will never have to get on an internet forum with posts like this again. guaranteed.
Demystify said:So I just slammed all my clothes on the floor really hard and kept on hitting my mattress repeatedly and now my knuckles are bleeding really badly. Can anyone top this? lol
I've done similar things. Knuckles weren't bleeding but yes throwing sh*t, slamming stuff, sure.
I don't know that getting mad is really a problem as long as you make it an opportunity to improve yourself and keep moving forward. To think you're going to be some stone that has ZERO emotion is just plain retarded IMO.
What if you didn't get a great job you were going after? I don't think it would be a big deal to get a little angry. I
don't see why losing a girl is any different. I just don't get that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
who cares, unless for you girls are hard to come by i guess.
just keep going out, keep meeting other women, it takes two to tango, you don't want to be with somebody who doesn't want to be with you
you should be the one choosing girls who YOU want to be with
that philosphy works for me, but i get lots of girls to chose from though, but i think you should stick with it
cheers
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Ahahahaha real or fake that **** is ****ing hilarious.r0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
hahahahar0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.