"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's the most angry you've gotten over rejection?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
never anything close.
external locus of control = horrible.
you shouldnt rely on anything to bring your happiness to you. you should be completely secure in yourself, such that you know that nothing really is THAT important.
anything that you cannot control is your master. is this girl who occupies literally zero role in your life that great that you should allow her to be your master? probably not.
this is essentially the idea of inner game, and yours appears to be weak from a post like this. diagnosing and recognizing the problem is the hardest part. hit the weights, pursue hobbies, understand that you are amazing as a person and get comfortable with that FACT.
as soon as you reach that point, you will never have to get on an internet forum with posts like this again. guaranteed.
Demystify said:So I just slammed all my clothes on the floor really hard and kept on hitting my mattress repeatedly and now my knuckles are bleeding really badly. Can anyone top this? lol
I've done similar things. Knuckles weren't bleeding but yes throwing sh*t, slamming stuff, sure.
I don't know that getting mad is really a problem as long as you make it an opportunity to improve yourself and keep moving forward. To think you're going to be some stone that has ZERO emotion is just plain retarded IMO.
What if you didn't get a great job you were going after? I don't think it would be a big deal to get a little angry. I
don't see why losing a girl is any different. I just don't get that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
who cares, unless for you girls are hard to come by i guess.
just keep going out, keep meeting other women, it takes two to tango, you don't want to be with somebody who doesn't want to be with you
you should be the one choosing girls who YOU want to be with
that philosphy works for me, but i get lots of girls to chose from though, but i think you should stick with it
cheers
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Ahahahaha real or fake that **** is ****ing hilarious.r0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
hahahahar0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.