"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's the most angry you've gotten over rejection?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
never anything close.
external locus of control = horrible.
you shouldnt rely on anything to bring your happiness to you. you should be completely secure in yourself, such that you know that nothing really is THAT important.
anything that you cannot control is your master. is this girl who occupies literally zero role in your life that great that you should allow her to be your master? probably not.
this is essentially the idea of inner game, and yours appears to be weak from a post like this. diagnosing and recognizing the problem is the hardest part. hit the weights, pursue hobbies, understand that you are amazing as a person and get comfortable with that FACT.
as soon as you reach that point, you will never have to get on an internet forum with posts like this again. guaranteed.
Demystify said:So I just slammed all my clothes on the floor really hard and kept on hitting my mattress repeatedly and now my knuckles are bleeding really badly. Can anyone top this? lol
I've done similar things. Knuckles weren't bleeding but yes throwing sh*t, slamming stuff, sure.
I don't know that getting mad is really a problem as long as you make it an opportunity to improve yourself and keep moving forward. To think you're going to be some stone that has ZERO emotion is just plain retarded IMO.
What if you didn't get a great job you were going after? I don't think it would be a big deal to get a little angry. I
don't see why losing a girl is any different. I just don't get that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
who cares, unless for you girls are hard to come by i guess.
just keep going out, keep meeting other women, it takes two to tango, you don't want to be with somebody who doesn't want to be with you
you should be the one choosing girls who YOU want to be with
that philosphy works for me, but i get lots of girls to chose from though, but i think you should stick with it
cheers
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Ahahahaha real or fake that **** is ****ing hilarious.r0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
hahahahar0cky said:This is how mad I get:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YersIyzsOpc
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.