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Whats the deal with studying with chick?

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Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?

What do you guys think? tips/advice?
 

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ok lets see here: see wants to study with you this weekend.

You can either

1) Study together, kiss her and eventually sleep with her next week

2) Don't study together because its afc thing to do and take a chance that she'll want to study the exact same thing next week. In the meantime Joe in your history class has already laid her.


"Patience is a virgin"
 

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Studying does not automatically put you in the "friend zone". If anything, it gives you an 'in', a way to get to know her better and talk with her one on one. If she's asking you to study, that's a good thing...a very good thing.
 

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go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.
 

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skirtChaser said:
go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.

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thats too funny
but i dont think that would work with some random girl
 

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If you have been getting any sort of real indicators of interest from her, this is her way of being aggressive and trying to get with you.

If she hasn't, she just wants help getting a better grade.
 

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If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.

If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.

I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.

When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
 

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Potbelly said:
If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.

If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.

I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.

When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
brilliant.
 

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It means that she at least somewhat likes you and doesn't think you are a creep. I've had 18 and 20 year old girls reject my offer of studying with them and I've had a 40 something woman want to study with me...

All it really means is that she probably does not understand the material and you have shown that that you do, then she might want to study with you.

Potbelly seems to be more accurate than me though.
 

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venser said:
Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?

What do you guys think? tips/advice?
you're trippen dude... you think too damn much. go study with her, atleast she'll know that you're focus in school, and that's always a good sign. maybe after you study, ask her to go eat or something.
 

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Studying is an awesome way to get to know a chick. How is that afc anyways???

Hmmm studying for History too??? Man, those study sessions could take all sorts directions. All of them good...
 

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I once screwed up an excellent opportunity, way back in my AFC days.

It's true what they say: it is through the failures in life that one learns the greatest lessons.


Back in my day this extremely hot girl in my math class wanted to study with me. I took her words as literal, even though:

1. She came to my dorm dressed like she was going to the bar...on a Tuesday at seven pm??

2. She was a MATH MAJOR. I was a biology major. She's asking a biology major for help with math???

3. She kept touching me and rubbing up against me.


I did nothing. Eventually she lost interest and stopped talking to me. I've not seen her since.




So basically think about the things that I missed. If they are pointing in the right direction, then do it. Otherwise, just end it quickly. It's far easier to study on your own.
 
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