You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
skirtChaser said:go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.
brilliant.Potbelly said:If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.
If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.
I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.
When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
you're trippen dude... you think too damn much. go study with her, atleast she'll know that you're focus in school, and that's always a good sign. maybe after you study, ask her to go eat or something.venser said:Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?
What do you guys think? tips/advice?