You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
skirtChaser said:go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.
brilliant.Potbelly said:If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.
If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.
I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.
When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
you're trippen dude... you think too damn much. go study with her, atleast she'll know that you're focus in school, and that's always a good sign. maybe after you study, ask her to go eat or something.venser said:Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?
What do you guys think? tips/advice?