That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
skirtChaser said:go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.
brilliant.Potbelly said:If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.
If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.
I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.
When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
you're trippen dude... you think too damn much. go study with her, atleast she'll know that you're focus in school, and that's always a good sign. maybe after you study, ask her to go eat or something.venser said:Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?
What do you guys think? tips/advice?