She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
skirtChaser said:go study with her, ask her if she has a tissue, when she leaves the room pull out your pecker and act like everything is normal, cover it with your book, when she comes back act as if nothing is different, after a while move the book and show her your pecker, act surprised and say "where did that come from"?, tell her you think it was rude that he just showed up like that, that you know he was never invited, but that since he is here, maybe you would like to be introduced to him. works great everytime, trust me.
brilliant.Potbelly said:If she has no trouble with the class, go do it. She's interested.
If she is having trouble with the class, seems like a cutthroat b1tch and you're doing well, she just wants to use you.
I've met both and dealt with the accordingly.
When deciding which one she is, forget about how she looks and focus only on her personality. You will find out which one she is like night and day.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
you're trippen dude... you think too damn much. go study with her, atleast she'll know that you're focus in school, and that's always a good sign. maybe after you study, ask her to go eat or something.venser said:Theres a chick in a history class of mine who wants to study this weekend. Now im wondering studying with a girl is an afc thing to do? am i going to be automatically friend-zoned for studying with her?
What do you guys think? tips/advice?