Maximus Rex
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Why didn't you to for an insta-date at the food court?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Whats the deal I get womens number at mall they ignore?
- Thread starter Shootin4Dreams
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Shootin4Dreams
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28 sir. How do i transition to a instadate?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Lets grab a beer at XYZ across the street.
Shootin4Dreams
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What do you say before hand so they want to?
marmel75
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Nothing. That's the problem...you don't get it. They will want to because you are confident enough to ask them and assume they will comply without NEEDING a reason. That in and of itself is a huge turn on.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
OP Sir...
this is what I call my day game, it should be your only game.
All other game plays off if it because it is you.
for me it is my style, I am a chatty guy especially with cashiers and a casual random comment.
My recent past was LTR's without stop, now I am single and abit timid to fire that ask out gun. My GFs were always telling me to stop flirting, and I wasn't aware I was. With a simple extension to my already casual and commentitive personality, I now throw in what I've learned here and elsewhere.
dont ask for numbers
instadate / set a clear time/place directly to her face, after work 8pm at XYZ
if you dont instadate, walk away happy as it is not easy to pull the trigger
the more times you shoot, the more accurate you become
be direct, and suggestive, smile as if you have a funny secret..
look them in the eye, notice if they smile back? look down?
deflect the boyfriend directly "I didnt ask if you had a BF, I asked you out for a drink"
be confident and outcome independent
(you didnt have a date with her before you didnt ask...)
/me gets popcorn
this is what I call my day game, it should be your only game.
All other game plays off if it because it is you.
for me it is my style, I am a chatty guy especially with cashiers and a casual random comment.
My recent past was LTR's without stop, now I am single and abit timid to fire that ask out gun. My GFs were always telling me to stop flirting, and I wasn't aware I was. With a simple extension to my already casual and commentitive personality, I now throw in what I've learned here and elsewhere.
dont ask for numbers
instadate / set a clear time/place directly to her face, after work 8pm at XYZ
if you dont instadate, walk away happy as it is not easy to pull the trigger
the more times you shoot, the more accurate you become
be direct, and suggestive, smile as if you have a funny secret..
look them in the eye, notice if they smile back? look down?
deflect the boyfriend directly "I didnt ask if you had a BF, I asked you out for a drink"
be confident and outcome independent
(you didnt have a date with her before you didnt ask...)
/me gets popcorn
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