Maximus Rex
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Why didn't you to for an insta-date at the food court?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Whats the deal I get womens number at mall they ignore?
- Thread starter Shootin4Dreams
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Shootin4Dreams
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28 sir. How do i transition to a instadate?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Lets grab a beer at XYZ across the street.
Shootin4Dreams
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What do you say before hand so they want to?
marmel75
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Nothing. That's the problem...you don't get it. They will want to because you are confident enough to ask them and assume they will comply without NEEDING a reason. That in and of itself is a huge turn on.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
OP Sir...
this is what I call my day game, it should be your only game.
All other game plays off if it because it is you.
for me it is my style, I am a chatty guy especially with cashiers and a casual random comment.
My recent past was LTR's without stop, now I am single and abit timid to fire that ask out gun. My GFs were always telling me to stop flirting, and I wasn't aware I was. With a simple extension to my already casual and commentitive personality, I now throw in what I've learned here and elsewhere.
dont ask for numbers
instadate / set a clear time/place directly to her face, after work 8pm at XYZ
if you dont instadate, walk away happy as it is not easy to pull the trigger
the more times you shoot, the more accurate you become
be direct, and suggestive, smile as if you have a funny secret..
look them in the eye, notice if they smile back? look down?
deflect the boyfriend directly "I didnt ask if you had a BF, I asked you out for a drink"
be confident and outcome independent
(you didnt have a date with her before you didnt ask...)
/me gets popcorn
this is what I call my day game, it should be your only game.
All other game plays off if it because it is you.
for me it is my style, I am a chatty guy especially with cashiers and a casual random comment.
My recent past was LTR's without stop, now I am single and abit timid to fire that ask out gun. My GFs were always telling me to stop flirting, and I wasn't aware I was. With a simple extension to my already casual and commentitive personality, I now throw in what I've learned here and elsewhere.
dont ask for numbers
instadate / set a clear time/place directly to her face, after work 8pm at XYZ
if you dont instadate, walk away happy as it is not easy to pull the trigger
the more times you shoot, the more accurate you become
be direct, and suggestive, smile as if you have a funny secret..
look them in the eye, notice if they smile back? look down?
deflect the boyfriend directly "I didnt ask if you had a BF, I asked you out for a drink"
be confident and outcome independent
(you didnt have a date with her before you didnt ask...)
/me gets popcorn
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