SELF-MASTERY
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Does this also apply to DJ's? I don't want to be a PUA.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats the Biggest Part Of Being A PUA
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KarmaSutra
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I voted Naturality. I see that as hardest to master and obtain for guys who don't naturally have that ability.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
True confidence and comfort with self (other)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sargeholic
Don Juan
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Confidence, drive, and persistence.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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If I understand naturality (being natural), that's what I went with; it's how I've been doing my approaches lately, alhthough I haven't had any in a couple of days. I'm going to watch the game tomorrow night though, so we'll see when I'm at the bar.
everywomanshero
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Low Key
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
satyriasis
Don Juan
I pick vibing. I rather know that I will be guaranteed to click with all the females I talk to.
GS-83
Don Juan
To me vibing encompasses most of your options, so that`s my pick..
Vibing = having fun
Vibing = having fun
CHOCOLATE(COLA)
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if u having fun u smiling, and u showing good body language
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
Confidence, persistance, and having a great body+penis.
Good_Vibes
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The difference PUA vs. DJ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.