SELF-MASTERY
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Does this also apply to DJ's? I don't want to be a PUA.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Whats the Biggest Part Of Being A PUA
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KarmaSutra
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I voted Naturality. I see that as hardest to master and obtain for guys who don't naturally have that ability.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
True confidence and comfort with self (other)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sargeholic
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Confidence, drive, and persistence.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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If I understand naturality (being natural), that's what I went with; it's how I've been doing my approaches lately, alhthough I haven't had any in a couple of days. I'm going to watch the game tomorrow night though, so we'll see when I'm at the bar.
everywomanshero
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Low Key
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
satyriasis
Don Juan
I pick vibing. I rather know that I will be guaranteed to click with all the females I talk to.
GS-83
Don Juan
To me vibing encompasses most of your options, so that`s my pick..
Vibing = having fun
Vibing = having fun
CHOCOLATE(COLA)
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if u having fun u smiling, and u showing good body language
guitaronfire411
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Confidence, persistance, and having a great body+penis.
Good_Vibes
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The difference PUA vs. DJ?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.