SELF-MASTERY
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Does this also apply to DJ's? I don't want to be a PUA.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Whats the Biggest Part Of Being A PUA
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KarmaSutra
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I voted Naturality. I see that as hardest to master and obtain for guys who don't naturally have that ability.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
True confidence and comfort with self (other)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sargeholic
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Confidence, drive, and persistence.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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If I understand naturality (being natural), that's what I went with; it's how I've been doing my approaches lately, alhthough I haven't had any in a couple of days. I'm going to watch the game tomorrow night though, so we'll see when I'm at the bar.
everywomanshero
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Low Key
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
Never using any terms that will tag you as a guy who learns how to pickup women online. Talk about screaming neediness with a big, flashy sign
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
satyriasis
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I pick vibing. I rather know that I will be guaranteed to click with all the females I talk to.
GS-83
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To me vibing encompasses most of your options, so that`s my pick..
Vibing = having fun
Vibing = having fun
CHOCOLATE(COLA)
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if u having fun u smiling, and u showing good body language
guitaronfire411
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Confidence, persistance, and having a great body+penis.
Good_Vibes
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The difference PUA vs. DJ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.