"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
whats the best place to meet girls?
- Thread starter uturn
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DanishDJ
Don Juan
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I can choose exactly what hair color, eye color, personality, etc just by going into yahoo chat rooms.
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.
Cheers!
Eric
www.tenderz.net/forum
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Some guys do good on the internet, for some the street or mall, for some bookstores or classes, etc.
Just get out there and try out different things and see where you feel most comfortable and have the best success rate and then work it.
Just keep in mind that some places have higher percentage pickup rates than others.
For example, a cold approach on the street is about a 10% shot.
Kicking it to a girl you see everyday at school would be a 30% shot.
Hollering at a girl you were introduced to by a friend at a get together or party would be about a 70% shot.
Do you see a pattern here?
The less of a stranger you are to a chick the higher the probability of her lowering her defenses so you can work your game.
So keep this in mind when you are selecting places to meet chicks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Be friendly...even to the UGs...it's a good hook up strategy...Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.