"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
whats the best place to meet girls?
- Thread starter uturn
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DanishDJ
Don Juan
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I can choose exactly what hair color, eye color, personality, etc just by going into yahoo chat rooms.
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.
Cheers!
Eric
www.tenderz.net/forum
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Some guys do good on the internet, for some the street or mall, for some bookstores or classes, etc.
Just get out there and try out different things and see where you feel most comfortable and have the best success rate and then work it.
Just keep in mind that some places have higher percentage pickup rates than others.
For example, a cold approach on the street is about a 10% shot.
Kicking it to a girl you see everyday at school would be a 30% shot.
Hollering at a girl you were introduced to by a friend at a get together or party would be about a 70% shot.
Do you see a pattern here?
The less of a stranger you are to a chick the higher the probability of her lowering her defenses so you can work your game.
So keep this in mind when you are selecting places to meet chicks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Be friendly...even to the UGs...it's a good hook up strategy...Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Also, having female friends hook you up with their friends is an excellent way to meet chicks.